If you were to research Amazons you will run across a statement that will say you should have parrot experience before taking on a amazon.
If you were to research African Greys you will also run across a statement that will say you should have parrot experience before taking on a grey.
If you look at amazons there are around 27 or 28 species of amazons each with their own temperament and personalities to choose from.
If you look at African greys you have TAGS and CAGS each with their own temperament and personalities.
Amazons are more a in your face parrots and African greys are more step back and check out what`s going and after grey time has gone by will make a decision as to if you are acceptable or not.
So why the statement, It`s their intelligence that can challenge you to the core and this can be said about all the larger parrots and some of the smaller parrots.
So why greys and amazons for this thread ? Well I have one of each and they are the love of my life.
My amazon Cricket is a rescue or a rehome might be a better word who came to us with issues. Another famous rehome on this forum is Miss Gilbert a TAG that also came with issues.
It`s not a matter of who or what they are, but what happens when you take them in.
Things that might help a new care giver of a rehome parrot IMHO.
1. Observation, Observer your new parrot and try to pick out things that you do that catch their interest.
With Cricket it was a soft voice that she seamed to like and would react in a very positive way.
2. Acknowledge, When ever you go by their cage say something to them. In Crickets case it was Hi in a soft voice. Sit by them, you don`t always have to talk, just be there. when you do talk it`s important that you talk to them and not at them.
(I hope you understand what I am saying)
3. As they start to come around as in Cricket case. she would do her head drop and I would do a gentle touch. It`s called building a relationship. As a relationship grows it will turn into bonding. As the bonding grows you need to start socializing to have a well rounded parrot that's fun to have around.
All this takes time, some times a long time. In the end, well.