I did research before I got my first grey, but I think you need to speak to owners first hand to appreciate the time and money spent if you look after your bird correctly. Most of my day is taken up with my birds, at least 4 hours out of cage time, which I have to supervise at the moment with the 2 greys. Cleaning out cages, preparing food. Also the problems people may encounter if they are used to a full on social life. All this has to be taken into account. If people think they can buy a grey and they will talk and be happy sat in a cage for most of the day, then its not the pet for them. They are very intelligent and need stimulation, they are very sensitive and loving, they need to build your trust. Caroline;)