Joolesgreyuk

Today is armed forces day in the UK, a day when we sit back and think about the sacrifices made, many in far-flung countries all over the world so that we can live our lives in peace and without fear. It's not only the dead but the terribly injured, many with life-changing injuries. I can't pretend I agree with what's going on in afghanistan, I don't believe our men should be over there fighting this war but today is not a day for debating that. Today is a day of reflection, of thinking of those lost souls and the families remaining who will grieve until their own deaths. I know I'm going on a bit but I have two sons in the armed forces, sons that have been to Northern Ireland, Irak and one son due to go to Afghanistan next year, I'm dreading that already. Despite all that I am fiercely protective of our armed forces, heros one and all. There is no camparison between these people and 11 overpaid prema donnas kicking a ball around a field (and I do enjoy the football) in South Africa who the minute we are knocked out of the cup will get on a plane and fly to some exotic destination to soak up the sun with their families until they are re-called back to training for the new season.

Very funny LOL

Thank you so much for your help, you are right every one of us can make a difference. Just because an animal isn't cute and cuddly doesn't mean they aren't entitled to the same respect as the cuties of this world.

How old is he?

Such a sweetheart. I love the close ups

Pre-owned birds usually come with a cerain amount of baggage, having said this your winter sounds pretty well adjusted, you will have to be patient with him and hopefully in time you may feel more confident handling him. I will leave it to other members to chip in with their comments as they may have other suggestions.

Hi Sherrie and welcome to the forum, it is great to have you on board. Firstly, I hope you didn't buy your grey on a whim as they are not a beginners pet and take a lot of looking after, they require a lot of time and money. Don't worry too much about your grey biting right now, he is new to your household and I'm sure he senses your nerves and hesitation. You will have to be more bold as you must assert yourself as head of the flock but before all that you must earn his trust. Try offering treats from outside the cage and talking to him softly at least until he is settled in his new surroundings, this could take days or weeks to acheive. It could be that your lil guy prefers males at this moment in time but this may change as he gets used to you. Please know that we are here for you should you need more guidance but it is far too early for you to be worrying about your grey's behaviour right now. Does your grey have a name yet?

My guess is that most people owned by and who care about parrots have a certain respect for all wildlife. Someone posted a link to me on my facebook profile, it was a link to a video of sharks being finned on a fishing boat, I won't post it on here as it upset me. I could see the pain in the shark's eyes and it was horrible to watch - imagine for one moment having an amputation with no anethetic and you get the idea. Please read this and do all you can to help. http://www.stopsharkfinning.net/ The cruellest of all creatures is man who doesn't kill only to eat but in many cases for pleasure, it's a cruel world and sometimes I'm ashamed to be part of the human race.

Beautiful pictures of your beautiful daughter and your family, thank you for sharing them. Love the name Mia BTW

Any news on this missing baby?

Heartbreaking...

What a wonderful story and much of it I can relate to. As kids we can't possibly understand the comitment in taking on a parrot. I have my own story of my elder children and 3 tiels. If only we all knew then what I know now but with no computer or internet there was no advice readily available. You know I didn't even know there was such a thing as an avian vet it until fairly recently. Like you I knew from an early age I was a bird person but didn't know enough to keep one. Don't beat yourself up, your story has a happy ending. Life itself is a learning curve and with age comes wisdom - hopefully.

Seriously, I also like the name Aoodi.

Well Judy rhymes with Aoodi, you could name her after our very own Judy ;-)

LOL well you weren't expecting that were you?? Is Aoodi a male name?

Brilliant news!!

LOL that is scary Jude!

Haha no chance woman!

Enjoy your special day Jay. x

I think from time to time we all get angy about something or other we don't agree with, I know I do but instead of bolting I tend to have a few days away from the forum and then come back after having slept on it and cooled off. I have done this on occasion and I know a few others that do so. Just upping and leaving with bad feelings is not the answer and leaves a bad taste on the forum. This isn't directed at anyone in particular and I hope Jill comes back as she is missed.

...and the same from me my dad is the best!

Nala is beautiful.

Great flight videos Sanjay!

You must be a night owl then Janet as you don't get up too soon maybe you are a vampire and rise by the light of the moon New word: Stars

OMG this little darling is far too young to be out alone and must be so hungry, let's hope she is found real soon