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I wanted to share about our return to "normal". Tonight like any other, I let Shadow out of her cage while I made supper. When all was done, I asked for a step up so that she could join us in the family room for movie time and she declined as expected. I told her how much I wanted her to be with us but that I was going in the other room to watch a movie. She can see through to our family room from her cage-side perch so I left her there. Next thing we knew she had taken flight and was actually flying INTO the family room! (normally when she is in there she flies OUT back to her cage). Funny thing is she actually landed on my son's back...he never saw it coming. lol And here we are..... Shadow on the back of my chair watching movies!

Incoming!!! lol

So exciting! I am visiting my zon tomorrow and her whole clutch was on the verge of flight. Now I really can't wait. They are beautiful.

That is very scarey. This situation is not one that is recommended do to all the risks involved, however, I do hope you will get the help you need to keep this baby well. There is a ton of info on this forum. Keep looking and doing your research as you wait for a response.

I am always weary of corn...one of the most genetically modified crops and always used as "filler". UGH!

Thank you everyone! We have returned to our normal routine, which includes my more realistic expectations. Shadow has been coming out of her cage as usual and I have begun asking for random step ups with no expectation. I am so appreciative of this forum and the opportunity to read everyone's stories. It helps to be reminded that each relationship is different and it's OK! I am perfectly hapy with my relationship with Shadow as long as she is happy. Shadow has fit right into our lifestyle and I do forget that it has only been 10 months. We have a whole lifetime ahead of us....and soon we will be joined by Lola too!!

So exciting!

Adorable...I have been watching and socializing a Rosie at my friend's/breeders house where I am getting my Panama. They are precious!!

LOL....she is VERY comfortable here and does not fear the floor or the little dogs that she encounters there. When asked to step up she will bow her head....when pressured for the step up she will bite, clearly announcing that she is conforming but doesn't like it! Lately she has not been conforming at all. I believe that my observation of her unwillingness to step up came at a time when we are all rather stressed out by a huge event held at our home a couple nights ago. Too much time spent preparing for this event and too little time pampering Shadow. Things are returning to normal with life, so I have every reason to believe that normalcy will return for all!

Very cute...thanks Bianca. Your videos always make me smile.

This makes perfect sense! I am happy to hear that things were fine all along. Shadow will be even happier to have everything back to normal. Thank you again for your encouragement and support!

Thanks Maggie.... I have been keeping her in all day and asking for a step up randomly. When she doesn't comply, I simply walk away and tell her maybe next time. Unfortunately this has kept her caged all day. Should I let her come out of her cage on her own and go back to our old routine just adding the random step up requests? I do not want to stress about this. I know she is confused and things around here have been crazy for the last few weeks.

Great pictures..thanks for sharing . It looks like she had a lot of fun!!

I am afraid in my attempt to avoid the bite, I have allowed Shadow too much freedom of choice. She has been with us for 10 months now. She has always been willing to step up when on the floor or on a perch outside her cage. I had not attempted "step up" from inside her cage as she will often bite me. So, I have allowed her to come out of her cage on her own. This has not been a problem until recently. Now, she is not wanting to step up at all. I feel like we have taken a step back in her progress and perhaps I need to start requiring a step up in order to receive the benefit of out of cage time. Once she is out of her cage, she no longer has a need for me....a she is able to do what she wants. Thoughts on how to best correct my mistakes and encourage her to want to step up would be greatly appreciated. I have spent the last 2 days working some tough love...so far no success.

Hmmm. Good thing we like brussel sprouts! Shadow prefers them raw on the stalk!

Welcome..can't wait to see pics. Rhis is a great place to ask questions and learn about your Grey.

Very cute!

I was thinking more "Copacabana...Her name was Lola, she was a showgirl With yellow feathers in her hair and a dress cut down to there She would merengue and do the cha-cha".....Can't wait to bring her home!!

Welcome! This is a great place to get info and support as you and Buddy adjust and begin to trust each other. One week is not very much time at all. It sounds like he is coming around nicely already. We would love to see pictures and look forward to hearing how things progress.

Sweet girl...she does seem quite happy. Thanks for sharing.

I think I have decided to call her Lola.

Sorry for the blurry pic...but here it is. Not sure why it's sideways?? :confused:

Welcome! Waiting always seems like the hardest part!!! Hang in there.

Well, we went to see our baby girl today. As life would have it we were not able to go last week and I was missing her terribly! Had a great visit. She is the youngest of the clutch and it shows. She is still very much a baby and slept most of the time on my chest. The oldest chick took it's first flight and i know our baby won't be far behind. She spent some time flapping her wings, showing off those pretty blue feathers and sampling some fresh granola. I am totally smitten.... Will try to post today's pics, just need to get them off my son's Ipod.

I have come to learn that those who are willing to give their life to a bird, have a different understanding of the world. Many think they are owned by dogs and cats, however, sharing life with these amazing parrots gives a whole new meaning to ownership.