Hi Devilangel,
Just be patient, and give your parrot some time to get used to you. Soon you will get to know what he likes and what would make a good treat. Kookie my grey loves almonds & peanuts and sunflower seeds. I use sunflower seeds when Ik trying to teach him something , and almonds when I wanna really reward him.
You will get to understand your grey. As for the playstand, just give him some time, put it somewhere he can see it, so he get used to it. If he likes any toys, just hang the toys on the stand. Soon he will love it and will never wanna leave it
Let us know how it goes
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