Oh so sorry, I know how you feel. I re-homed a Blue Front Amazon that I got from a wife whose husband was the zon's owner. Louie was 1 1/2 years old when I got him, he is now 5. I am the only provider/caregiver in my home and Louie still bites me and will not let me touch him. He can touch me but I am not to touch him. We have an understanding and Louie will go in and out of his cage as I ask but I can not touch him. He likes guys so when I can no longer care for him, my daughter will see that he is given to a male. Who knows why parrots do what they do. We can only love them on their terms.