Hi Sherry, congratulations on joining the Grey family. Winter sounds like a lovely grey. It is important that you relax and overcome your anxiety when around Winter. Winter is sensing your nervousness and greys are so intuitive and intelligent. I would suggest you talk to Winter and get to know him. Offer him treats and verbally interact to him. Believe me he will understand a lot of what you are saying. There are oodles of threads here with a lot of helpful information so read, read, read. If you have any questions just ask and we will try to help you. So relax and enjoy your new friend, greys are great companions.