My TAG is female and so am I. She is totally bonded to me. She does like my two grandson, one is 22 and one is 11. She flies to them and loves to sit on their shoulders. My daughter, my TAG will tolerate, if she has piistachios! My CAG is young and male and he loves everyone once I let him know they are all right! So I don't believe it matters as long as you grey is socialized well.