Hi Mark, great advice from Dave007 (I've nicknamed him "Dr. Flock" because he has had greys forever and is very knowledgeable) Anyhow, greys have different personalities. I have an 8 year old female, Ana Grey, and a 6 year old male, Sterling Gris. Both I got when first weaned (babies). Ana Grey is very confident and only talks when she is inclines. She is very friendly and in charge. Now, Sterling Gris is more cautious and very talkative. He repeats just everything. I live alone and both have only been with me. Personalities very different. I suggest you talk to your new friend and let him/her know what you are doing so he/she gets comfortable. My greys were sexed by their avian vet when I had them microchipped so they can be returned to me if the finder is so inclined. Both greys are flighted as I believe wings are for flying not butchering. Just relax and enjoy.