Hi Cheshirecat and welcome to the forum, it's great to have you here and that you have joined us before your new addition comes along!! There is an awful lot to learn and this is the right place to do it!! It's great too, that you have read books etc, but their is no substitute for experience, and your friend will hopefully tell you all that the books won't - the mess, the noise, the destruction - the mayhem!!! Lol - just kidding, not too much mayhem!!!
I too found my way to this site from Andrew and Tui's Youtube page - their story is so sad.
It's good that you're here - any questions, please do not hesitate to ask, there are many very knowlegable members here, and we are all eager to help in any way we can.
Can't wait to hear how you get on with your new baby!
Lyn & Alfie
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