Hi Naz,
firstly you have only had honey for a week, so dont expect any miracles.she needs to adjust to her new surroundings.
Your long term goal should be to win honey,s trust. If a parrot doesn't trust it's human, you will never be able to do anything with her. Likewise, when your parrot trusts you, you will be able to do most things & hopefully form a special bond. One thing you may need to know is that some birds are very protective of their cages. This is their domain, their safety zone, their "space." Therefore if possible you need to take honey into a neutral area to work with her.
While she is in the cage just chat to her reassure her that everything is ok.just talk to the bird keeping your hands down/back so she doesn't become frightened by them, she may well be afraid of hands at this point.simply by doing this honey will begin to gain confidence in you.When you feel you are making progress, you can introduce your fingers/hands. Play with toys with your parrot using your hands so she can learn your hands won't hurt her. (find a toy that your bird isn't scared of). Feed Honey her favorite food/treats by hand and she will learn your hands are good things and won't hurt her.
When she growls back of, never tap her on the beak for biting, a firm no is sufficent.If you start physically punishing her she will never trust you !
Here is a good link on teaching the step up..
http://exoticpets.about.com/od/behavior/f/birdstepup.htm
Personally i would let her out, she cant be caged indefinitely, leave her food in the cage she will return of her own accord or try getting her to step up on to a perch.
Always reward postive behaviour & ignore the bad.Time & patience is whats needed to win your little girls trust.