Hello Valerie and welcome to our family, we are so glad you could join us no matter what you get and we look forward to hearing more about you and this grey.
I am tending to go with the 2 year old, it is always good to take in one in need of a home and if you give it your all, your love and attention then it should make a good companion for you.
We do pride ourselves on the wealth of information here so continue to read the many threads and do ask questions you may have and we will help you in any way we can.
When you do make that decision please share a few pictures with us, you can see we love pics here.