Hello Ryan and welcome to our family, we are so glad you could finally join us and we look forward to hearing more about you and Paco.
What a wonderful introduction and you tell us so much I feel like I already know you and this is great, we like to know some about our members and their birds as it helps when a problem arises to give advice.
You may want to consider getting another bird, not a grey but a smaller species of bird to keep Paco company during the day while you are at work. I have a sun conure along with my grey and even though they are in separate cages they are in the same room and probably provide some companionship.
You are so right to include all the family in on interaction with your bird, Paco will be more socialized and will be more willing to be handled by others if the need arises.
Even though you didn't get to visit with Paco before you brought him home it sounds like he is settling in nicely and you two are bonding, keep up what you are doing as its working.
Please do continue to read thru the many threads for lots of useful information and do ask questions you may have and we will help you in any way we can.
We love pictures here so if you have some of Paco you would share with us we would love to see them.