I don't consider Dave's response to be any kind of bullying, he can be blunt in his posts but that is just the way he is. Like some of the others I tone down my true feelings of what I would like to say sometimes because some people are easily offended, that seems to be a real disease these days. He gives out excellent advice and if you choose to use it then fine but I can attest to the fact that Dave is passionate about greys and has much experience with the raising and caring for both breeder and companion greys.
As for the subject of a certain banned member, most of you have no idea of what admin and the mods had to contend with behind the scene but that is over and done with so let it be.