So new update,
Dalia actually allowed my Partner to pick her up and even gave kisses!
I have been placing her playstand in the living room, while my partner watches sports etc I stay out of there and he alone tries to bond with her.
Gives her treats asks to pet her and if she acts like she doesn't want to be pet he doesnt.
He talks to her a lot and she actually allowed him to pick her up!
It takes time and knowledge with a lot of paience.
I THANK you Dave for your advice as it has made all the difference.
Cristen