Hmmmm.. thats a LOT of issues you seem to have with your grey... wow.
I agree with the mess... Birds in general are kinda messy. But that is something that they do naturally and they don't think the way we do as far as keeping the floor neat. They drop a good percentage of what they are eating. They flap their wings, and food and feathers fly everywhere, they poop when they feel the need, and bite if you dont understand their signs/body language. They talk if and when they wanna talk. They wont be forced to do anything they dont want to do.
My Dalia shows clear signs when she is about to poop,
She gets down and backs up with a lil bum wiggle.
I distract her by talking loudly and then pick her up and take her over the newspaper or to her playstand and then say " ok go poop " and she does. She of course poops a lot when I didnt even notice but Im trying to limit the accidents.
You can try taking her to a room where its just you and your grey, and talk to her and let her come to you, if she is biting when you would like her to step up maybe try using a stick, one thats not too wide and not to narrow so that she feels comfortable on it.
Gradually make the stick shorter and shorter so she gets gradually closer to you/your hand.
The one thing that I think is very important is that your whole family should learn all theyt can about greys so that they understand her/him better.
I think that people should change their ways in order to fit into the greys life rather than the grey should change to suit you and your families needs/wants.
Good Luck!
I hope you can keep your grey and give it a loving, caring and understanding home.
Greys do not do well playing musical homes bouncing from one to the other. In fact that is why they bounce around due to the bad habits formed when they are constantly changing owners and have to undergo the stress over and over. The new owners cant deal with them so off to a new home they go!
I wish you guys the best...do come back with your updates sooon.... have you pics that we can see?
I love pics!
Remember: Your grey is a wild creature with wild instincts. Nothing can take that away.
Cristen:silly: