Hi dj,welcome to the Grey Form. I have a male cag, Sterling Gris, who is 6 years old. He trusts me totally. Sterling Gris totally loves my next door young 6'5" male neighbor; hates my oldest daughter, but loves my youngest daughter. So poo poo believing that greys prefer one sex over the other. Personality/vibes of an individual is what attracts a grey. Sterling Gris loves to talk and repeats just about anything he hears. My tag, Ana Grey, 8 years old, just loves and trusts everyone. She loves to give cheek kisses and shake claw to hand.