Not being funny or anything Stephen - but Isaac is still a baby, just wiat till he finds his voice - then see how your movie watching goes!! You'll be in the middle of the best film you've seen in yonks, it'll be at the crucial bit in the film where you find out who did what to whom, and why they did it, and Isaac will decide "this is a good time to whistle that new tune I just learned"!!!!!
Seriously though Jill, good thread - I've been meaning to start something like this for ages!
Two things I did ask when we got Alf, will she bite, and will she be friendly with us both, and not with just one of us - we were told, nooooo she won't bite, she might "beak you a bit", but they don't really bite, and yes, she'll be fine with both of you - grey's being one person birds are a myth. We've had issues on both counts, but for the Grace of God, and I think Alfie being an exceptionally well-adjusted bird, we've gotten over both.
All too often when people want to get a new pet, whatever that is - dog, parrot - snake, they don't ask the questions they don't want an honest answer too - ie the answer that might put them off. I was guilty of it aswell. David said, "but do they not crap everywhere?" I said "Nah, you can potty train them" (convincingly!). As you say Jill - these are questions that must be asked before you get a parrot. The conseqences of finding out that you are not compatible with a parrot 6 or 12 months down the line, are upsetting to a human, but are devastating and tragic for the bird. The sad fact is, too many people go into birds with their eyes shut. I've said it before, but I think one should have to pass an exam of some sort to prove competancey before being allowed to keep any pet, but especially a parrot, because there is just so much involved in looking after them.
As Stephen has said, "if you can come to terms with the responsibility, they are the best of friends and offer a lifetime of rewards for good care". Sadly, too many people decide they are simply not worth the effort.