Thanks for the advice, he only flew once this mourning it was when I tried to spray him and he flew away I just put him up after that. It seems like he is always trying to go to my shoulder now, I don't let him up there in threat of my ears, and him being in control. Also he has a playstand on top of his cage, I have a stool that I stand on when I pick him I am above him. Is it bad to put him up there and talk to him when he is above you? I get him down when I am above him and he usually fusses a little then steps up.