Laurie

I have heard of Greys being adverse to a certain color. Not always red. I don't know if there's any scientific explanation, but I've definitely heard of them hating some colors, and also loving others.

Klaus has only seen himself with me in the mirror. So I think he knows it's us.

I may have topped you! Klaus pulled a "band" type hoop earring back through the piercing hole in my ear. It was stuck there. I had to have my brother in law get it out for me. When we finally got it out it was bent into the strangest oval shape (it had started out a perfect circle). I can't believe how strong these birds are! Anyway, sorry about the bite - I feel your pain. And good job keeping your composure!

I'm having a similar problem. Some of you may remember my triumphant post a couple of weeks ago when I got a regular $99 stand for $23 on sale. I was so happy! Well, Klaus has only been on it maybe 2-3 times. I knew patience would be in order - it takes him awhile to get used to EVERYTHING. But this is even beyond Klaus' normal time span to accept and even enjoy something. The last time I insisted he sit on it (I was doing homework with my son and couldn't have Klaus chewing up pencils & papers) he stood at the very edge of it a peep-peeped so pitifully. These birds really know how to lay on the guilt don't they?:laugh: Anyway, all tips are appreciated. Personally, I think I need to time it better, when he's more in the mood to play independently. And when there's not all those lovely pencils and papers over there that he so desperately wants to chew.

Welcome! We're glad you're here!

Thank you all sooooo much! I don't know why I was even hesitant in my feelings about it. I guess I don't want to come off as trying to be his parent or something. Or that I'm some high and mighty person with impeccable morals. I'm not perfect but I like to think I'm a decent human being. My husband is on board with me - he wanted it stopped, too. So, I saw my brother in law this morning and made sure he was perfectly clear that this isn't to happen again. It was awkward to have to do that, but I feel so much better now. And, much better now that I know I'm not the only one who would not stand for it! Thanks again, ladies!

We have an issue here that's been driving me nuts. My brother in law is staying with us after he and his fiance broke up (they were living in her house). We don't mind helping him out while he gets back on his feet. However, he's started seeing a new woman (a little over a month ago) and he's been having her spend the night. We allowed it once a while back when they'd been drinking (we didn't want them driving and so gave permission for his guest to stay over). Since then she's been sleeping here half the time and he knows I don't like this. I have a 10-year old son here and I don't think this is a great example for him. Also, my brother in law does not pay rent, so I think he should respect our wishes. I opened my home to him, not the general public! I hardly know this woman! Am I just being a @#$%&? What would you guys do in a similar situation?

When I first got Klaus, I tried like heck to keep him off my shoulder. This resulted in the "birdie shuffle" wherein he would continually clamber up one arm while I stepped him up on the other hand, and it would begin again. Literally, a continuous loop. I soon got tired of our whole visit being spent this way. Plus, I soon learned that I might need to use my hands for something other than deflecting Klaus from getting on my shoulder. So, alas, he is a shoulder boy through and through. We don't have a bad time of it, though I do sometimes wish to exist for a while without a bird on my shoulder. Most nights he's up there about half the time and playing or eating somewhere the other half.

That's great news, Jimmy!

That's great news! I promise I will get a digital camera & learn how to use the darn thing...

I'm pretty sure a bird vomiting for you (or trying to vomit) is true love! Lovely, isn't it?

I voted! It was hard to pick ... great job everyone!

I'm happy for you! I remember the good old days, when Klaus would wait to be offered something. Now he just helps himself out of my bowl or plate! :laugh:

I'm very sorry to hear that. I wish I could offer advise. You seem like a very caring person, though, so at least your little guys will feel loved.

Hello and welcome! You've come to the right place for great advice & nice people!

Hi Angel Lady! It's nice to have you here - welcome!

Welcome, Kelly! You've come to the right place for great advice and nice people. Kids in general can make a Grey nervous because it's difficult for them to move slowly and quietly. My son is 10 and has been disappointed that Klaus is not "his" bird. (Klaus is definitely attached to me.) I'm sure things will be fine in time, but not mixing the kids & the bird right now sounds like a good solution.

Congrats! That's very exciting...

What fun! :lol:

Aaaaaw! Karma for you!

When we first brought Klaus home, I kept a good supply of popsicle sticks handy. When he would bite, we would offer the stick as a substitute. I would also say in a firm voice (not yelling) "Fingers aren't chew toys. Here's a chew toy." and give him a stick. Not that we're pros or anything, but it didn't seem to take him long to realize sticks are acceptable, fingers are not. As for flying, I agree with everyone, clipped wings are the best prevention. Klaus still flies a little, but I can't imagine what we'd be up against if he were fully flighted!

There are no stupid questions here - don't be shy! Klaus doesn't talk yet but makes some very cool sounds. One is like the sound of water dripping. He also whistles in two ways: One is the whistle we do when we someone who's cute :lol: - the other is the whistle we'd do to call a dog. He does them at appropriate times, too. Your bird is probably very smart!

Here in Michigan the reality of winter is beginning to set in. We turned back our clocks, plus it was cloudy today so I actually had to put on my headlights during my 1+ hour ride home. Today is supposed to be the warmest of the week, in the 50's - the rest of the week will be 40's and they've started mentioning possible snow! I've lived here all my life and I still DO NOT like winter!!!! (Except for the Red Wings, yes Red Wings make it worthwhile. But the best time for that is in the Spring when Playoffs are going on!)

Thank you, thank you! I knew I could count on you, Joe!

Aw, that's terrible news. I'm sorry to hear that. At least it wasn't that the breeder was doing something terribly wrong - to me it does sound like an accident. Good luck to you in finding another bird!