Lusya, you're not silly. You don't need to prepare Honey Bunches of Oats. It's regular cold cereal. Klaus will eat whatever type of cereal I'm eating, which is mainly frosted shredded wheat. He eats the wheat part and drops the part with sugar. What a good boy, huh? Too bad mommy doesn't like it without the sugary part! I think cereals on the whole are great, just watch out for overly sweetened ones or anything with chocolate. As far as milk, Klaus eats right out of my bowl (lucky me, to think there was a time he was too shy to do that!). So he does get a teeny bit of milk, but if I try to give him his own piece of dry cereal on the side, he doesn't want it. He wants what's in my bowl. Hopefully that isn't too awful. I haven't noticed him having any potty problems so I'm figuring the little drops he gets aren't hurting him...
I think Cheerios are another good choice because of their size & shape and they are pretty nutritious. I offered Klaus Cream of Wheat before, and he didn't want it...I'll have to try it again.