Your not being silly at all,i spoke to a few breeders before i found the right one for me,i liked everything about her methods,etc..& she always had time to answer questions & update me on my 2 babies progress.I would say go with your gut feeling, this lady appears to know her stuff, you will be able to pick / bond with your baby, she will answer your concerns as you have said.The only thing i would say if you are not experienced with hand-feeding then please do not take your baby at 7 weeks, let the breeder wean the baby.Ask this breeder how she socializes her babies ? will she be able to start the step up process for you ?
breeder two would not be an option for me, i say go with that gut feeling
We have many topics here in the nursery which will stand you in good stead with your baby, please keep us posted on your decsion.