I found that Timber wasn't very active when I'm not at home either. He does eat, and eat quite a lot, when he is alone. As far as playing with his stuff, not much until I get there.
Hello and welcome Rachel I'm a newbie myself, that there are many experienced and knowledgeable people here who will help you with any question you have.
Hello and welcome Jared! They are both beautiful birds. I hope you enjoy Charlie as much as I enjoy Timber. You are off to a great start if Charlie is already tolerating everyone well.
Timber's favorite treat is probably cheese. He gets pretty excited about a boiled chicken wing too though, and it is better for him! I really limit the amount and frequency of the cheese, and usually use it only when I really need to convince him to do something (like get on his scale every other Friday).
I know the feeling. I'm always on the back burner when my son is home from college. Ah well! I still enjoy seeing Timber so excited and happy, and, like your husband, my son gets all puffed up