Someone asked me today if Emma my african grey was my favourite of my two parrots.
I stopped to think about it and said no.. they are both very special in their own ways and enrich my life in unique ways. I have a very close relationship with each of them. I do not favour one over the other and wouldn't trade either of them for anything. I also think it helps that I only have 2 at the moment. Additional parrots would be a balancing act for sure and there would definitely be a "transitional" period to adjust to.
They are both very approachable to my SO and others but I'm pretty much the person who does everything for them day in and day out.
I must admit that Emma requires me to be "more talkative" than I wish to be sometimes, but otherwise, I provide the both of them, the same amount of time, toys, care etc..
My relationship with each of them is similar but distinct.
How about you guys? Do you favour one over the other or inadvertently don't spend as much time with one of your parrots as you know you should?