I have always believed in giving greys choices. I would rather Charlie use his brain to make his own decisions.Sure sometimes I will need him in the cage,easy,I taught him to go in when I say come on get in ,he then gets a prize treat,No cage no treat.Well it was really my cousins grey who taught him to do this while I was minding him.I will also try and avoid confrontation.In another post I wrote today I explained I had a pan on my couch to keep him off it,he is not sure of the pan so stays away. I feel thats better than having a confrontation to remove him, its also his choice to stay away.