goldn1 firstly take a deep breath, sit down & we will work through this & ignore the stick guy that approach will terrify Dorian even more !
Right i do have experience of a terrified grey who is petrified of hands,humans approaching etc..It is very early days & it is going to take time & patiences on both parts here to build up trust with eachother.I understand you want her to come out of the cage, so that's where we will start .Leave the cage door open, does the cage have a gym area or an open top ? or do you have a play stand near the cage ? given time curiosity will get the better of dorian & im sure she will come out,leave her to climb up on wherever she is comfortable,dont worry at this point about getting her back in, i can assure you when she is hungry she will find her way back in, so it's important at this stage not to feed her anything outside the cage.The second night i had my wild grey he refused to go down for his food & i slept on the sofa all night long,but hunger & food will always lure them back
Right so for now if your home now all day & dont need to go out, i would go open that door,your gonna have to start somewhere & if need be ill be here all day whit you