Hello Dazdncnfusd, and welcome to the forum. He looks like a Tag not a Cag, which means the tail feathers are not as bright as the Cags. Sorry you got bit but it doesn't look like he broke the skin just bruised you some. He could have taken a chunk out of you if he wished.
A lot of the greys will like women more than men and vice versa, so don't worry about that. Just don't react when he does bite or he will know that biting gets you to leave him alone. You will have to work on trying to gain his trust and it will take time so have lots of patience because you will need it. Use those things he likes as rewards for doing what you want him to do. Never punish him, they respond to positive reinforcement.
Do some reading on greys, a good book is "For the Love of Greys" by Bobbi Brinker. It has a lot of good information and will answer some of your questions. But feel free to ask us anything, if we don't have the answer maybe we can direct you to where you can find it. Good luck with your new friend and keep us informed of your progress.