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Welcome Gus!

It really sounded like baby sounds to me. Unfortunately our birds make some sounds that we don't always appreciate. The best way to stop it is to ignore it. Just make sure baby has everything she needs, then ignore it. ps...Lola sounded like a duck!

Great looking boy! He is maturing nicely and it sounds like you are enjoying every minute!

Sweet baby sounds. Lola (my Zon) used to do that more when she was a baby and she needed something. Now she just screams...LOL My advice would be to try not to indulge the sounds you don't like, but make sure baby has enough food and water.

Mine is female and too young for hormones?? I hope. :cool:

You could get her a flight suit....AKA birdie diaper or only allow her to perch where there are papers below which can be tricky with a flighted bird, but I would think not impossible. Mine are all flighted but Shadow doesn't like to fly around and Lola typically hangs on her perches. It's my little one Sami that tends to leave presents everywhere. I also have these great little placemat type mats made from washable water resistant fabric, poop wipes off, it's washable and the fabrics are nice! That would maybe help for the sofa, or even a towel??

You are a welcome part of the Grey family! Keep reading and asking questions. Everyone here will be willing to help when they can. At 16 weeks or so, you baby shouldn't be too fragile. I'm with you though, it scares me to think about handfeeding.

I used to take it personal...wondering what I had done to cause this type of behavior. I have completely resolved to the reality that it "is what it is"...LOL Every day is different. On the days when Shadow is more obviously bratty, I often comment to her as such, "your being a bratty girl today!" and keep on walking. Gotta love a grey.

Welcome from another house full of feathered furry and finned critters in the Southeast!

I have heard that the lab occasionally gets the samples mixed up...:confused:

Welcome! I am certain you will get more help here than I can provide, but it sounds like you may need more information. Greys are not like dogs and each bird is very different. You mention that the 2 year old bird lost it's "mate" can you explain what that means? Was she intended as a breeder bird? As for the 8 year old bird, she may have more baggage, but if she was a beloved pet, she may not have the same issues as a bird that was intended to be a breeder. Unfortunately, as you may have realized by reviewing this forum and it's endless supply of information, there are no "one size fits all" answers to grey behavior. My grey was 8 when I rehomed her and I adore her. It took us a while to understand each other but she is a great bird. Either way you will need lots of patience. Good luck!

Nancy, like you always say...we all do what works for us. The height of this tree has never been a problem. My birds simply love it and it works for us. just wanted to add that we have a smaller version..maybe 6ft, in the family room and they LOVE that one too. Especially now that it's too cool to be outside.

Hey all....I am also in Georgia and can confirm that hawks do not have much fear of humans and will not hesitate to swoop in and snatch prey even in close proximity to people. Like Murfchck, I know several people who have felt the brush of a wing or the wind from a hawks close flight. That said..I do still take Lola out on her harness, I just keep a VERY watchful eye on our surroundings.

AWW...adorable. Pictures are a great idea....Keep'em coming.

I'm thinking terrible two's and rebellious teen. Hang in there!

Been contemplating my strategy in this area as well. Already ruled out the fancy glass ornaments. Actually stopped using them a couple of years ago when our youngest cat refused to stay away!! I was thinking about stringing popcorn and cranberries!

Chewing is different from plucking...Shadow also had some chewed feathers. It may be hard, but best to ignore it.

I would agree with Aerial...2 weeks is nothing. The honeymoon, as they say, is over. Charlie has encountered a whole new life with you and needs time to figure it all out. As for the plucking, don't worry about it..worrying won't help. The stress of finding a new forever home with a bunch of new people is enough to cause anyone to pluck a bit. I guess you might think of it like nervous nail biting or hair twisting. Shadow, my CAG recently went through a tough time here with us..I was freaking out because it looked like she was plucking. After posting here for support, I sat back and realized I was completely stressed out by a huge event happening at my house that she was stressed too! I suppose she figured if I was worrying about something, she needed to be worried too. Flock mentality. I am no expert as Shadow has only been here for a little over a year but we are still learning to trust each other and our relationship is better all the time. What I can say for sure, from experience, sit back, relax and the relationship will come. Grey time functions on a completely different clock/calendar!

I think a couple times a week for the bathes should be enough. I have never heard of daily or 2xday being beneficial. Dave?? You might also consider a humidifier for consistently moist air....that should help too. The first moults are always the most concerning. Shadow has plucked a few "spots" in her life so I am also very watchful! Try not to focus on that behavior as giving it attention can make it worse. I can't imagine what my girl must of thought of me constantly peering in at her trying to see bald spots!! LOL

Emma, I am so sorry to hear this news. I know your heart is broken. Cherish his memory. I agree about the necropsy, it will help and if you ever decide to get another, you will have the reassurance that you have done everything in your power to make sure your house is free from anything that could harm another. You will never replace your sweet baby but it does sound as if you have plenty of love to share.

Welcome...what a precious baby! Please introduce yourself and tell us more about your baby!!

I am so sorry Zoom. I am sure this is something we have all feared...our sweet baby suddenly turns evil. I wish I could help. As you know, help will come! Hang in there and know you are not alone.

You do not have to keep taking the bites. He is trying to tell you that he is not interested in being handled. I thought that I needed to get my rehomed CAG to step up and let me remove her from her cage..it does not have to be this way. Since I have changed my expectation and allow Shadow to come out on her own, our relationship has improved greatly! If I want to relocate her I have begun to use a "step up stick" which she gladly responds to AND I do not get bit! She is a gem and eager seeks me out we have just agreed that I will not push myself on her. Physical tough was something that I wanted..she did not and since I have accepted this reality, everything is so much better. Hang in there. Loving a Grey can be the most rewarding experience ever, but it often presents the most frustration as well.

Welcome! This is a great place to get info and support from fellow bird lovers. We would love to see pics.

Beautiful baby. So good that you found this forum as there is a lot of great information here. I am also curious about this "shackle?" Can you explain more about it's use? I have trained my Panama Amazon baby to the Aviator harness for use in keeping her safe outdoors. I have really enjoyed the freedom it gives her without any risk of damaging her legs.