Hi, I just wanted to welcome you to the forum. I got my grey from an out of state breeder too, and I had all the same concerns you are having now! Everything worked out beautifully, though. My grey is now 7 months old and I treasure her! Like everyone here said, just read all you can about greys and ask any questions you may have. Everyone is so friendly here! I'm sure you'll find the information here to be helpful. Congratulations on the baby grey, you don't have much longer to wait!
Bobbi