Hi Robert, when I picked up my baby grey two months ago, today is her 6 month birthday, the breeder told me to cuddle her and handle her because that was what she was use to having done. That my baby would need to know she belonged because she had just lost her siblings and what she was use to. So I cuddled and played with my baby, keeping in mind that she was a baby and also needed a lot of rest. I believe it is different when you bring a baby grey home, they are lost and lonely and need to find a new flock, that should be you and your family. My Ana Grey comes to me and pulls at my fingers if she wants a skritch on the head, she trusts me and I try not to break that trust. We are bonded. Ask your baby grey's breeder lots of questions about what your grey's schedule is. What he is fed and his eating,sleeping, etc. routine. Please let us know how things go when you get your new baby home. And pictures please!!