From the beginning, if I don't want my grey somewhere I move her. If she won't step up I just cup her in my two hands and move her telling her why as we go back to her cargo net, perch, cage or wherever I want her to be. You have to be in charge or like any child or pet they will do it their way. And you know, Ana Grey loves me to this day, regardless of whether she get her way or not. I gently swat her away if she tries to light on my head, sit on my shoulder or on my keyboard. You are not being mean, you are being in charge. Ana Grey has boings, perches, a cargo net and a tree stand throughout the house where she can always see me and be near me in each room of the house, except the bathroom, that's mine! Does she try to bite me, yes sometimes but I tell her no and do what I have to do anyway. Just like little children, you have to do what's right for them and you whether they like it or not!