Talon

Thank you Kevin for everything you have done for us. You have put your heart & soul into keeping us here as a family. We will continue on with greyforums.org. I know I speak for so many..you did your best & are very appreciated ..but as with most things, times change..not always for the better...just different....it's sad for our generation to see any loss of info. but we all have it in our hearts & minds.

Having a yellow crowned amazon parrot myself...this just breaks my heart reading this today. Chirping sounds lead airport officials to bag filled with smuggled parrot eggs | WWLP

I have a tag, a cag & an amazon. All 3 turned out to be girls. I got my second grey, a cag ( rescued her) when my tag was almost 2 years old. NONE of them are bonded, they don't seem to "like" each other..but tolerate each other. They have established a pecking order...They do not hang out together, when they are in their cages, they seem to care about that ( all 3 cages are on the same side of the room) they have no tolerance for sharing. They each have their own spaces, they accept that when one flies over, the other will go to a different spot. I do on occasion have 1 on each shoulder. There have been territorial fights to which I have to run & put a stop too, but usually one will fly off rather than engage, I keep an eye on them when they are out. 2 weeks ago, I was cooking pancakes in an electric frying pan, I didn't realize 1 of of my greys were on top of the fridge next to the pan on the counter..the other grey was in the cupboard above the fridge. I was taliking to my daughter on the phone which makes my amzon yell, I went onto the bathroom so I could hear her & what a fight that happened. When I heard the commotion, I RAN out yelling & it was too late, my Cag fell into the pancakes & burned all the little feathers off her ankles! Poor thing, that pan was at 300 degress! I felt horrible!!!! She was fine, but had flown off to the her safe space. I got her & she stayed on my shoulder for comfort. There is zero guarantee they will like each other. But they will learn to co-exist. In my opinion. it is a 50/50 chance. You have to ask yourself, IF they don't like each other, are you willing to allow them to co-exist & keep them as happy as they deserve, & if they don't bond ..are you willing to commit to a lifetime with them..if the answer if NO to the latter, then don't get another one.

I am so sad for the both of you. This breaks my heart....Best wishes to you both

Nilah turned 14 years old! Today is her hatch day! She keeps me on my toes, but I love her to death! When she is sweet, she is sooo sweet, but when that Amazon in her comes out...She's Full on Amazon! LOL

LNCAG, what state are you in if you don't mind. I am sure you have told us, but I need a refresher! I have an outdoor bird (screened) room on part of my deck, it has an enclosed roof, so sadly no sunshine comes in. Out of my 3 it is my Amazon that LOVES it out there, my 2 greys wont have any part of it unless I go out in it and they stay on my shoulder for a bit...quickly wanting to go back inside if I DARE to try & leave then there. It is attached to my living room where there is a window I can open so its easy to go back in when they desire..which for my Amazon rarely..but my greys are NOW!!

LNCAG, Thank you for sharing. I appreciate the concern & respect you shared. MY heart breaks for you, knowing in your heart you are doing the best for Snickers..try & find some comfort in that. I pray for you & Snickers. ❤️ I have met with an Elder Lawyer. I want to avoid any will and probate, so most everything is in a trust. I have a verbal agreement with my daughter as to how she will handle my 3 if they outlive me and are still here . I have complete trust in her and I know she will honor my wishes and do what is best for them at that time.

Greytness & LNCAG, I can't thank you enough for your thoughtfulness on this topic & not "shaming" me for my thoughts as I go thru this difficult topic & decison. There are no sanctuary's remotely close to me. Also if I make the arrangements now, being 62, it could be (hopefully) quite some time before this need arises & whose to say the sanctuary would still be there? Another worry.... LNCAGI love that you have made arrangements as the need arose... that would be my hope I could do the same. I imagine my partner would keep my amazon, they really like each other, but not certain. He is 28 years younger & won't even discuss what happens "if" when I talk about it..not worth the argument even tho I try. He J-just doesnt want to hear it, so I will make whatever arrangements need be so things are in place. My hope is he will take her, & my daughter would do what is best with the others. She would either try & find them a really nice home or do what is necessary if she can't. Haven't yet discussed it with her, but I will soon. I am meeting with an Elder lawyer for estate planning soon & we will have this discussion as well. I am so relieved that I am not the only one struggling with this topic. As it so happened this was posted this week on my FB & it really hit home.... https://www.facebook.com/groups/fbfeatheredfriends/permalink/6752566988090152/

Thank you, all wonderful things to think about. My avian vet retired many years ago..there is no avian vet near me anymore. My vet for my cat & dog doesnt know anyone..I hope & pray in the next 10 or 20 years ( I exoect to be here) God will help me find someone who will love them & do right by them. I intended for my daughter to take them & find homes for them, but she has a rescue dog that attacks birds so they can't go to her for now...in 10 or 20 years, I pray things change..I know I can trust she will do right by them if that means they go to new homes..:/

Yes, I don't have that kind of $$ for a trust.. 11 is hard to plan for...do you have thoughts on their care?

Hi, I hope I get some responses & opinions. I am doing estate planning for myself ( I am almost 63 & getting things in place early) I have very young parrots, 1 Amazon 12 years old & a BIG handful, (hates all women, except me) 2 African Greys, both will be 18 years old this year....I have NO ONE who can take them, or really wants them.....I dont want them to go to a rescue as there aren't any in my area. It is troublesome for me.....the stress they will go thru, as they are pretty spoiled & set in their ways....... I have a friend who rescues Mccaw's, they are true rescues & not rehome able..She has made arrangements that when she passes, they will be euthanized so as not to go thru the stress of what would become of them. Although I was SHOCKED at her choice when I first heard this.....as time goes on & I have given it alot of thought, it seems best for them. They will never know , they will just go to sleep. Being caged birds, it really is cruel to all parrots as they don't have the benefit of living a fulfilled life like a cat or dog. They are our "slaves" so to speak, in their cages when we say so, out when we allow it. My parrots get out as much as possible when I am not working, they are out, flying freely thru the house, perches EVERWHERE, my house looks like a giant bird cage.... BUT,will they have this if left to another person, ..being separated from each other, living in a new home, new rules, new environment, new routines, new everything, food, treats, new people who handle them in a way they don't know, possibly someone clipping their wings so they never fly again..imagine what all this would do to them physologically..... Yes, I know some parrots will adapt, but with 3,,,I feel they will definitely suffer trauma, quite possibly alot. Then there is the issue of leaving enough funds to care for them..will it go to their care or will the new owners spend it on other things, could another owner have the money needed? All things I am quite concerned over. I owe it to my parrots to give them the best possible life as long as possible. I know I can't control their lives once I am gone..that's the problem, they don't deserve LESS than, & I don't want that for them. they deserve the best life possible as long as they are here, I OWE THEM THAT! So I guess my question is......what is crueler, putting your parrots to sleep upon your death..or the trauma they will go thru as they mourn the loss of their lives & us that love them unconditionable.....as they know it ? Pretty dark & deep, I know

PINNED & FEATURED. I pray he comes back home ASAP. My heart hurts for you.

Thank you, She LOVES to eat anything & everything!

Thats funny! Talon LOVES to suck on ice cubes as well, but snow has always been her favorite. My other 2..they freak out with cold things, especially Nilah my amazon!

My honey grew about 4 acres of peppers last summer. Nilah LOVES it when he brings some home for her!

Talon has always loved fresh winter snow! When it snows I go outside and scoop up some clean snow for her! 20221211_180032.mp4

Nilah my Amazon trying to sqeeze into Rikki's bday pic!

OMG! That is the best thing I have ever seen! My greys just eat our ties..How did you ever get her to do that? She’s such a star! I love her and her trust is amazing.

I agree with all of you, fb, TikTok, instagram, they have all taken away great posting abilities. The under 10 second attention span….I believe many of us are just too busy on other social media sites scrolling away ….there is such a wealth of info here.. that’s why it will stay as long as possible. It’s irreplaceable information that you won’t find elsewhere. We lost a lot of our long time experts…and newbies don’t seem to be ..are their new parrot owners, and if so where are they? Ray was having some health issues after losing his wife..I hope he checks in again soon..also, Judygram has disappeared as well… I really appreciate those of you that have hung in and check in from time to time. Thank you for taking the time .🥰

Welcome! So cool that he led your here ! Please keep us posted, was his name Timmy then as well?

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I will donate again. Please let me know how much to keep this site running in a pm. You shouldnt pay all alone :/

Sugar is not good as they can't metabolize it like humans can, it just accumulates. I don't use any sugar, nor do I eat anything that has sugar in it . I do use monkfruit if I am baking & need a sweetener. I don't eat anything with any type of chemicals or processed food, not do my birds, occasional cookies with no sugar and choc with no sugar, nothing artificial..yes they do once in a while

Very cute!