Yes, I would say hang in there. You will have him your entire lifetime. You committed to that. Throughout your life, there will be good times and bad times. You can't keep every day happy for your kids, they will go thru times that you and your wife are too busy for them or distracted, the same holds true for your grey. They will get thru it, just like you and your family will get thru changes in life. As a single mom of 4 kids, trust me, when your kids are grown, you will be grateful for your bird, it will fill your empty house with companionship, love and a need. You will have more time as life goes on, and in the meantime, get a parrot sitter dvd, new toys, new distractions and things for him to forage with. Don't give up just cause life got busy, we all go thru it.