Thank you Dave for the sound advice. Sorry for my poor typing and spelling. Yes judy i did mean, is it best to get two bird from the same clutch (nest).
Just to bring this up to date. Found a great lady breeder not miles away from me. Been to see her this morning sat with her and all the birds for a good couple of hours. No way would she let a un weaned bird go, you could tell she realy cares about her birds.
I was unable to pick a bird i could not get any to interact with me. My girlfriend spotted one straight away they where like old friends and she put her name down for him.
I'm a bit worried that me and grey just don't get on. We are back saturday to meet them all again, they wont be ready for a couple of weeks.