Hi Lee, I think you have already come to the right place to learn about greys. Karma to you for doing your research before getting a grey. I was a member here before I purchased my grey. The members here made me feel at home and the abundance of information in the threads of this forum are priceless. If you have a question, all you have to do is read through the forum rooms or just plain ask a question. Everyone will try to help. Welcome to the Grey Family!