I consider myself very fortunate, my grey, Ana Grey and I are very close, we have been from the very beginning. Ana Grey's breeder is a fantastic person who socialized her babies from the get go. She told me that Ana Grey would be scared and looking to fit in and that I should cuddle her and love her as it was what she (the breeder) had done with her since taking her from her parents. She also told me that young greys test everything with their beaks as they are like their hands so to never assume that my new grey was trying to bite me but rather to "test" my finger/arm as a perch and I should relax and not pull away or think that her "beaking" me was a bad thing. I have always done what Ana Grey's breeder suggested and just relaxed and enjoyed having my new baby grey with me. We learned together just like everyone does in any new relationship, you have to go with your gut feelings and just enjoy the ride. If Ana Grey does anything I don't like I just say so, a firm "no bites" (yelling is not something that you need to do, just be firm of voice) I also talk to Ana Grey all the time and I believe she tries very hard to understand what I am saying (she will tilt her head and look at me with such concentration). Give yourself som time to understand your new baby and let her learn to understand you. Relax and enjoy.