Ronda, I think a lot different about this problem.
First: All is not well if you say, you have never been bit. You have given the bird too much freedom in her young mind. She is not the boss and you’re the slave for her, instead of being the teacher. My bird is 2 days younger then yours and I have been bit so many times that he knows now it don't work. He never bits me anymore because he learned it means nothing. He hated me to touch his body, now he lays on me and loves to be pet and cuddled. He bit me so hard and drew blood when I tried to get him on his back, now he is always on his back even if I just hold him in the palm of my hand. He also sleeps on his back while on my chest.
Second: There are pros and cons about flying, but in your case it’s for sure a problem, because she Has Too much independence. It shows so much as you say she will get on you after landing on the floor. She doesn’t need you for much, instead of her needing you for everything. You beg for her respect, but it’s her to gain your respect. What is the difference between her and a child that you have to help when it is needed? She don’t need you, she is doing fine, You’re not. Plenty of food, water, clean cage, treats and toys. Who needs you?
Take over the control even if you think she is human, witch she is not. She don’t have human emotions as you do, so don’t think she is equal to you.
Best of luck, and if I said anything to offended you I’m sorry. Just one mans feeling.
Joe