Hi there, I am just weaning my bird, I got some great advise from texas girl. I was in more or less the same situation and she really helped out. My bird was 3 months old at the time I got it. I started feeding in 4 times a day with the mash warmed and squirted in his mouth. Maximum quanity was two tlb spoons mixed with enough warm water to make 40 ml. He took most of it although sometimes it was a bit less. I have also given soaked overnight seeds. Sunflower and corn kernels and I warm up frozen peas and he loves those. At the beginning he just mashed them in his mouth but everyday seemed to eat more and more. Texas girl told me not to feed apple just yet as it is bad for the poos. She told me to get some sweet potatoes but I haven't found any here yet. I did find though that baby food veggie flavor is also good. After feeding I put my bird in a pet container for an hour so that he can roost in peace and I certainly put him in after the last feeding at night with a few tea towels to make a nest out of. Normally these birds are not leaving the nest until they are about 8 months of age so they need pleanty of rest. I have kept mine only on low pearches durning the day to that he can't fall off. I have only started with my bird a month ago and seem to be out of the worst of it. You can email me if you want, but I would also try texas girl she really helped me so much. I don't know what to tell you about the laying on its side I would go to a vet just to be sure. Oh ya, get the scales they have been invaluable in being able to judge growth. Although my book said that they do tend to loose some weight at around 4 months when they start flapping and try flying... Good luck best regards Trina