He has lost his trust of you for whatever reason and you will have to earn that back, this will take time for it is something that cannot be done in a short period of time.
Do not try to rush things, continue to do what you have been doing and time will fix things, if you are an impatient person he is picking up on that, do not show him your frustration at not being able to handle him at the moment.
Dan has given you some excellent advice but time and patience will be your best friends for the time being.
If it is like Joseys then it almost is like a hiss as it comes thru their nares but the others are right its normal, they do make all kinds of weird noises when playing, you might think you had some other creature besides a grey in your house.
Thats wonderful news Robin and I bet you felt so good that you cried with joy on her first real flight and landed on your arm, you must be so proud and I am pleased as punch for you, way to go Robin.:cheer:
I have to echo Dan's comments, I won't feed these foods listed above because it has been advised that they are toxic to my birds and I will err on the side of caution when it comes to their health.
Maybe there is no scientific evidence that states they are toxic but I am not going to take the chance, there are plenty of other foods they can enjoy so why risk it.
I have heard that too Jay and you two will have to be strong to put on a happy face when inside you are so sad and want to cry but if this helps then please find a way to make it happen for Spock's sake, I know you two have big hearts but sometimes we have to hold it in for another's sake.
I will send some good vibes out to you two to be strong in light of how things are at the moment, hang in there for better days are a comin.
The vet visit is a good idea especially if she has not been in a while and then you will find out if she is healthy or lacking in anything.
I leave a radio on during the day when I am gone to work, some of the other members do leave a tv on, something to provide some background noise and or entertainment.
They do need as big a cage as you can provide, they need plenty of room to be able to stretch their wings and flap without touching the sides of the cage.
She may be a little irritated with you since you are no longer providing "sexual favors" but that too shall pass but you did the right thing.
As for the feathers you have found she may be molting.
We have some excellent threads that deal with avian lighting just do a search but here is one that Dan made his own setup that is nice.
http://www.greyforums.net/forums/limitstart/20/african-grey/47809-lighting.html
I only have experience with one grey but we do have many members with multiple greys and of both sexes but each grey has their own personality and are individuals. Some of them will chime in with their thoughts on the subject.
I hope you are successful for you seem to be a determined man but you have the health of Rishi to be concerned about and will do what is necessary to ensure that he gets the help he needs, keep us informed and I will continue to pray for Rishi as I have for Spock.
Howardine is right, no avocado, chocolate or apple seeds, the garlic is ok just not the whole clove, if a food is seasoned with some garlic then that is ok.
We do have some threads that list the toxic foods that includes onions, mushrooms, any carbinated drinks, tea, coffee or salt.
carolz7 wrote:
You don't mean it Carol, tell me it isn't so!
Great toys and great pictures of Emma and Sachi enjoying their new toys, thanks for sharing.
Congrats on finding a good breeder, its too bad you have to wait for the next hatch but good things come to those who wait and you are in for a treat.
I am also so pleased that you will leave your bird flighted, they don't have wings for nothing.
Just browse thru the toys and playstand room for lots of ideas for make your own toys and Carol7 has a lot of good ones in there.
Just look at those fuzzy little fluffs of cockatiel babies, they look like they have really grown since they hatched, I see the remnants of the egg, thanks for sharing them with us.
I understand you perfectly Jules and most everyone else here does too, being a woman you worry more than most men would but you are a little crazy but in a nice way.
You probably have more reason to worry about mold than most of us here in the US since the UK has more rain than we do but you are a good mom to both Beau and Argyle even though Argyle doesn't return it the same as Beau.
I am not a breeder but that cracked egg is not viable and yes if you remove it more than likely she will lay another.
Dave007 is our resident expert on this subject, he has pet and breeder greys and many many years of experience.
I am so sorry to hear of your loss of Prince, he will be sorely missed, you two have had more than your share of difficult times lately but you will get thru this.
Frosty looks like he doesn't know whether he wants to indulge in a bath or not, he looks unsure but he is a cutie and thanks for sharing the picture with us.
Hello Christian and welcome to our family, so glad to hear you are wanting to add a grey to your family.
A grey that has had a former home or homes sometimes comes with baggage, meaning it might have habits and behaviors that may be unwelcome in your home but that doesn't mean that they would be unacceptable. An older bird is usually more independent than a baby grey but we do have some threads here that give you lots of advice and information to help you make the decision whether a baby would be a better fit for you than an older bird.