Hospital

[Jayd]

Jay is seriously ill and is going to the hospital, probably later today. We wanted to wait until after Thanksgiving but he is really suffering and in extreme pain. If you are interested in what Jay's condition is, let me know and I will tell you. Love, Maggie

[Talon]

Oh Maggie, I’m so sorry.  Please keep me posted. You both are in my prayers. ♥️♥️

[Greytness]

This deeply saddens me. Praying that they can help make him feel more comfortable. Please, please, please keep us posted. And  please let him know that I will be lifting him up in prayer.

Edited November 11, 2018 by Greytness

[katana600]

I'm just getting back online and trying to catch up.  It's a terrible choice to have to make, having you by his side has to be of great comfort.  Hoping they can help relieve his suffering and he will know we are all thinking and caring for you both. 

[Timbersmom]

Please keep us updated Maggie. Many of us care deeply and want to be in the loop. I am praying for you and Jayd.

[Greytness]

How is Jayd doing today? Is he more comfortable?

[Jayd]

Holding on

[Talon]

😿

[Luvparrots]

Jayd and Maggie, I wish you both peace and comfort.

[Jayd]

Jay is in the hospital and on heavy-duty IV antibiotics...not sure what is going to happen....still waiting on the doctors, has lots of pain but is hanging in there. Maggie

[Greytness]

Please keep us in the loop, Maggie. Hopefully the antibiotics will do its magic on whatever infection he's been battling.

Sending healing thoughts and prayers

 

[Jayd]

UPDATE: They moved Jay from Telemetry to high-risk ICU today. He is on several life-threatening infections they are 😟treating, have said that he will be in the hospital for a long while, and they are contemplating surgery but are unsure he would be eligible because the flight to Las Vegas and subsequent surgery may be too much for him to survive...(wow...😢) so, we shall see....it is obviously in GOD's hands now....Maggie

[Greytness]

He's in the best of hands. Sending you prayers of strength, Maggie.

[Talon]

Maggie, my prayers and love to you both.  Please give Jayd a hug from me..❤️  Remember we are always here for you..♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

[VStar Mama]

Praying for you and Jayd.  Please remember to ask for any help you need.  Don't forget your self-care!  

I don't know if there is anything I can do to help, but please ask!  You are both very much loved here!

[Jayd]

NEW UPDATE:

Jay's condition is so poor, after he and I spent hours talking....he has refused the surgery etc. which would alleviate only one problem because he would be enduring many surgeries and subsequent skin grafts, etc. and would still have the underlying lung issues and CHF.

His main reason is to leave the main time, work, doctor's attention and all that goes with it so that someone else with more promise could benefit...His love for mankind is so great ....I will update as we talk to caseworkers, since he will be going into hospice care full-time....thank you and GOD bless each one of you....Maggie and Jayd

[Talon]

Oh. Maggie.... I'm so sad, but I understand your decision.  God Bless and may Jay and you know how much you are loved by this family. As always, your in my prayers ❤️❤️

[Timbersmom]

Prayers for strength, peace and healing for you and Jayd. God bless.

[Greytness]

My heart is filled with such sadness. Lifting you and Jay up in prayer.

[Greywings]

Pain relief and comfort. you are both loved with respect and admired. Holding your hands through this electric media and sending gentle hugs.

[Acappella]

Maggie, please tell Jayd that I have him in my thoughts and I hope the move to hospice is a positive one.  In my experience they are very good at caring for pain, so hopefully Jayd gets some relief.  E-hugs to you both.

[kittykittykitty]

Please, prayers are vital,  but Maggie and Jay need all the help we can give!

[Jayd]

Just a quick update: Jay's condition is progressively worse. I almost lost him Thursday morning....I woke up and Jay's air was not working properly...his oxygen saturation had dropped to 31...I woke him up and gave him a secondary oxygen bottle so I could bring up his O2 levels. He has some resultant eye and hearing damage from the loss of oxygen and it took a few hours to get him up to his average 91 saturation rate. The nurse said that it will probably take a few days to recover from the oxygen loss.

What a time to have run out of wine! 😝

Jay has two to three nurses who come in three times a week to take care of him and Joe, to our total amazement, has just rolled with it. Joe loves one of the nurses and always shows off when she is here (they are put in their cages when they come over) and Salsa just hides out in the corner of her cage. Thank you all for your prayers...Maggie

[Greytness]

31%??? I didn't think you could have that low of O2 sat without experiencing a very serious outcome. It amazes me how resilient the human body truly is.

I'm glad he's still here with you, Maggie. What a frightening experience that must have been for you.

[Jayd]

Greetings Greytness...thank you! As Jay was recuperating, it took quite a while to bring his O2 levels up and during that time, he said he had no pain and no discomfort. He said most of his sensations and pains came back after about three hours...Now, after being examined by the doctor, his eyes and ears are damaged...He needs 400 dioptic correction in each eye and he is now completely deaf in his right ear and partially deaf in his left. He has no feeling in his right hand and both legs and his pulse is jumping from extremely low to afib territory. Most of the damage (that we know) is to his extremities, ears, and eyes and I have been told to keep a close watch since it could be weeks before we find out the true extent of damage besides the elevated risk of heart failure and strokes...they have also upped his medications and breathing treatments. I am very worried....I really appreciate the kind words and they mean so much to Jay who is really scared right now. Thank you so much!