it figures , I'am the one that called about Baby our new grey and drove an hour to go get her and bring her back here and now she loves my hubby I spent extra time with her today just to see if I could scratch her head which is a no no for me according to her , the only time I can do that is when she is with her daddy either sitting on his lap or when she is on his shoulder , hubby can do anything with her and I noticed she still shakes a little when she is with me , so is she still nervous around me ? and it will just take time right? she will step right up for me so I guess that's a good sign , but that's it