Hi am a new menber, as i dont get my baby till the end of may, i thought id do as much reserch as i can, so am hea reading all your brilliant advice am taking in as much as i can, writing notes so i dont for get. it seems when your waiting all you can do is stress worrying about things hopeing that youve put the perchs low enough that its foods right that the journy home not going to be two stressful, hopeing that he or she will love you as much as you love he or she and so on. it is realy like bring your fist born home the worries, hopeing that your gonna be a good mam even tho you know in the back of your mind evrything will be fine, we still worry.... how meny of us have gone though this??? xx