Thank you so much for your response.
We have no clue how old Sam is. The vet gave him a clean bill of health, and he arrived missing alot of feathers, but all have grown in, beautifully. I wish I knew more about his background, but he was dropped off, at night to an empty parking lot with some other animals. We had him dna sexed and he's a he, for sure. I think you gave me some excellent advice about not getting disappointed if "everything I hope to happen doesn't happen." We may have to remind ourselves of that several times. Our intentions are good- I see all these active birds and toys and want to offer him everything, but knowing he's terrified, we've been keeping it simple. Right now he will play with only one toy but there are a few in his cage. We borrowed a cage from someone and have been reluctant to switch him to a new one, knowing how scared he is of change. I hope the corner one works out- it seemed to be the best fit for the space we have to work with, here in our main living area. I wish I had written before we actually bought the cage- it's due to be delivered tomorrow. Would you transition him all at once? Or leave it empty for several days letting him see it first? He has a play tree that he is terrified of, so for now we just keep it around for him to look at and hopefully he'll have the urge to play on it sometime.
When he first arrived here he would only pick the dried corn out of a seed mix and eat nothing else. He has slowly come around to eating pellets and we're really working on veggies and fruits- baby carrots and grapes are his favorites.
I am glad you thought we should hold off on overwhelming him. We try and do the right thing by him and I just feel for him. He shakes alot, but his only aggression has been preceded by very clear body language saying he's frightened.
I am home all day caring for a sick family member, so he has plenty of company, even if he prefers it from a distance. He does seem to love music and joins my tiel in singing (whistling) to the songs in the early morning.
His vocabulary is mostly of sounds, but when he first arrived he had quite the potty mouth. Now, he doesn't say many words, but has introduced us all to a variety of sounds I never knew existed.
Sam and I appreciate any advice you have for us. I've learned so much by reading these boards, but know we have a long way to go.
Thanks for any thoughts.
Karen (and Sam)
I'm sure I'll have loads more questions, but what do you think about