A simple question, a complicated answer.
When you read the first post to a new thread you have to decide do I answer or pass.
When a new thread starts with only two lines, no real subject, is vague, little info, hearsay and your not sure what the question is, than I will pass. Its hard to give a good answer when your not sure of the question as we all know from the pass.
We all try to answer your question from the heart and in what we think is in the best interest of our loved fids.
So if you have a question, make it clear as to what you are asking and if you answer, know the question.
Just my observation.
P.S. Also stay on topic