Shanlung
I have had the pleasure of taking on the challenge of an eight year old re-home grey. It was very apparent he was never handled nor loved. I do not have the experience most people have with African Greys. I have only read a little bit just due to the fact it is like reading a book on giving birth...everyone is different. I just used basic common sense. I have two other greys, but got them at four months old, so I didn't have to jump into a personality which was already molded. Don't get me wrong, I have taken some hard bites, but worth the outcome. He would never come out of the cage unless it was to attack you. He was scared and protecting HIS cage..that is all that he knew. We let him settle in a very short time before we started to handle him, or at least try to. I would watch his body language (eyes, head, feathers)...He educated me very quickly. I never scolded him, just told him that I love him and that was not nice. We have had him for three weeks now...he went from attacking and banging his beak on the cage to walking out and stepping up on your hand. He likes to let me know he is the man of the house ( I let him), he puffs up, eyes pin...I sit and talk with him and ask him if he is done...he will raise his foot when he is ready and all is good! He has taught me patience and tolerance and with that he now says "I love You!" and I can steal a kiss from him. What more can you ask from such an intelligent, extremely important part of our family? Nothing~~~~I knew he was going to be work and when I bought him, I was at the bird farm to buy another youngster and saw him..I knew I had to have him. I have lots of holes in my hands, but worth every step we have taken together. I can't wait to see what he still has in store!