Hi John, George is a very handsome grey. Whoever owns him can be proud of him. I don't have a lot of grey experience so I can only tell you about my Ana Grey. She is only 7 months old and she is very independent and not afraid of anything. I just give her a new toy and she is happy. All greys are different. Anyone can give her tickles on her head, she loves head scratches so if they say "tickle, tickle" she is theirs for all the scratches they want to give. You didn't say... are you re-homing an older grey or are you in line for a baby grey? Can't wait to hear more about your search for your grey and see some pictures when the time comes. Welcome to the family!!!