It's like going into a hornet's nest...Everybody here only has one thing on their minds...The welfare of birds. The passion, enthusiasm, and love for our babies on here show everyday in the posts, and when you come into a forum with questions as you did, blood gets boiling and things get heated. You seem to be a caring person toward animals, and I think it's great that you want to share experiences with one. My grey seems pretty outgoing at times, but I've also exposed her to many things since she was 3 months. I've never owned a bird, and never was a bird person. My wife wanted a bird, and we bought Keywe on vacation. She ended up becoming my bird, and now I think of myself as a bird expert because of all of the research I've done, and still will continue learning about them. They are fascinating animals. I couldn't imagine my life without here now, but I had NO idea how much work and attention they need. They are extremely HIGH MAINTENANCE animals, so you better be ready and dedicated to whatever you decide to get, especially if it's a grey. I'm not too sure about other birds, but after reading about all of the other greys on here and their temperment, I may just have a more outgoing one, but she still does get spooked over the silliest things...The pumpkin on the counter freaked her out the other day, my wife brought a screwgun through the room by her cage and she went NUTS! They are wierd birds at times... I take her out a lot, cages in the backyard, an aviary in the back, cages in the front. She is exposed to quite a bit, but is still scared over sounds and new things. You may want to do much research with other kinds of birds as well so you wouldn't have to have the extra patience with a nervous bird. I know I jumped around a lot, but make sure you do PLENTY of homework...I wouldn't change anything, but again, I'm not trying to make her an adventurer either. Good luck