Hello and welcome to the family, Siobhan, glad you could join us. You are finding out that you have an awesome creature in your grey.
This is a common story of your grey loving you and not liking your spouse, and mine is no exception. Josey is my bird but she only tolerates my hubby, but she is gradually letting him do a little more for her so maybe eventually she will allow more.
What is her name and you said you have had her for a year but how old is she and did you get her as a baby?
We do have lots of information here in our topics and threads, read thru many of them for useful info on a variety of subjects. If you have any specific questions feel free to ask us anything, we will do our best to get you an answer as soon as possible and help you in any way we can.
If you have any other photos besides the one in your avatar that you would like to post please do so, we love to admire each other's greys.