Is ruby really a Rudy? Lol

[Rubygrey]

What does this mean is my she a he? Lol and what can I do to stop it?  She does this at least once a day and I try to get her to stop but idk what to do

[Greytness]

What was going on before the behavior? Were  you stroking his back or his belly by any chance?
Once a day isn't excessive actually. Simply ignore the behavior whenever he elicits it.

[Rubygrey]

Does this behavior indicate that it is a male? I was told it was a female but no dna test. And nothing just holding and talking to her 

[Talon]

There is no way to tell the sex without a dna test.

[Rubygrey]

She has started to do this just about every time I hold her which is quite often I try to just stick her on a perch for a few minutes and try again I hate having to put her down to chill out but I don’t want to encourage this behavior, she also literally chases my wife and tries to attack her is she being territorial over me or just enjoying the reaction she gets from her? My wife is scared to hold her Ruby will step up to anyone and be calm and happy.