I completely agree about replacing cookware. I was more curious to see if it was something that was more than a common theme from the research I've done. I had one scare with my cockatiel when I was younger. Someone, I think my dad, burnt the food they were cooking and at the time my bird's cage was near the kitchen as soon as I smelled the smoke I rushed my bird outside and she ended up being ok. I was definitely lucky and I wouldn't want it to ever happen.
I could wait until next year to get a grey. I am just excited about the idea of getting one so I'm flip flopping between being impulsive and patient.
Thanks for all of your input.